Hey Zen, I just saw your posts on my thread. Sorry I missed them earlier.

I have to agree with you on the SELFISH H's. I was pretty sure I was married to the most selfish man in the world. Reading in here lets me know I am not alone, and neither are you.

I read through your posts here and it looks like you got some real good advice. i hope something helps for you!

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007