Yeah I signed and she will be receiving it tomorrow Friday. Now the ball is in her court. Hopefully she delays it. The papers went to her not the attorney.
Well I was just sitting here reading the board trying to think of some words of wisdom to give and my W calls. I was a little surprised this is how it went...
I answered remembering to keep a smile on my face and she said "Ok so I figured it out. If we only talk for a few minutes we can both walk away happy as long as we don't talk about the M so you have till I get home" from there we just talked about work and stuff. She told me a little about her day and her job and what's being going on. Then she started talking about my Daughter and started to say how I never made her feel like a good mother. How she wasn't so crazy after all. How she did a lot of good and I just didn't see it. How women are simple "if you want a good woman then you have to be a good man"
The whole time a tried to keep it light and validate.\
So now my question is if the other person feels like they are right in their decision and that I am to blame for everything anyways if I validate doesn't that just strengthen their resolve for leaving? Doesn't she think..."see I knew I was right all along and I did the right thing because I deserve better. Now you’re seeing it and now you understand but now it is too late because I was not wrong"
Since the conversation was light I brought the Walk away wife and she said I would see it if I had a computer so I told her I would send it to her Iphone if I found it.
I only brought it up to illustrate that I was not angry with her and that I understood where she was coming from.
She seemed so sure in her belief that she has made the right choice because she was right all along, if she believes that then why in the world would she return and give us another chance.
So much for feeling great and hopeful! Jeez! That victory was short lived!
