Lion

Welcome to these boards.

Originally Posted By: Alb
Wear a cup.


Always. Always! Protect your cowboys!

Look man this is bad dose of crap right now I know.

The thing you need to understand is you did not cause her crisis and you can't fix it.

You can f@ck it up more if you're not mindful and stick to the plan.

The plan?

DETACH.

First and foremost do this. Just leave her be.

She has got herself all worked up in a world of hurt and you're the one makin' the sh!tstorm.

Don't give her any more reasons to blame you so just STFU (shut the f@ck up)

When she wants to talk just listen and validate her feelings for now.

Doesn't mean you agree with them but that you acknowledge she has them.

Right now yours (feelings) express here with all your vigor and profanity...

We can take it.

And so can you.

This is a tough road my friend so...

What are you prepared to do for your M if you are not assured it can be saved?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am