I think that when MLC hits, it forces us into a life change. It forces us to look at our lives and ourselves and really figure out where we are and what we want and who we want to be.
And while it is a crisis that forces us on this path, we are not mired deep in the fog that our spouses are.
So, I think it might put off or eliminate an MLC of our own.
It's the gift that keeps on giving. LOL! I crack myself up sometimes.
LOL B-lady ... u crack me up too
Truth is, IF we do the work, then what causes the crisis in the first place has been eliminated. BUT if we choose to run from it, run from our own issues, or gloss over it in any way ... we are now completely at risk ... and perhaps even experiencing our own trigger event!
It truly is a gift to have this opportunity without the fog, without the regret, without the damage done to others ...
... the gift that keeps on giving indeed!
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
