Then be done Harrier.

You take everything out of context. Of course I need love and respect but that was not what sandi was referring too anyway. Nor was I.

If you really feel men an women are the same in sooo many ways that's fine. No one said that YOU have to buy the "men ate from mars women are from Venus" BS. That does not make you right.

I see your problem exactly. You don't respect the opinion of others. You feel you're right because you believe it.. You come off as arrogant. But I don't think you are. You like to play devils advocate. What if your W believed in MAFMWADV? Would you tell HER it was BS. If you did I'm sure she would really respect you..


With that frame of thinking good luck in YOUR marriage...


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012