Detachment issues

[whitneypinch]

You are not alone.
My XW is doing exactly the same thing.
After 3 years I have finally stopped contacting her and stopped being kind.
Now when she contacts me she is sugary sweet. Boy, I will tell you it is HARD not to get sucked right back in.
I have been there so many times and every time I get sucked back in she turns cold and it just ends up hurting me.

It is much better to try to just stay away from our Xs.

My view is that if our Xs love us and want us back then they will do whatever it takes to contact us.