Sandi2, I hope you don't mind, but I have prayed that she would not only find this site, but find you.
Oh wow, that brought the tears! I certainly don't mind, b/c I believe in the power of prayer.
I wished I knew what name she used back then. I try to catch any WAW's that come, but it would be easy to miss. I had a WAW and a LBW that were very instrumental in guiding me back to the light. And let me tell you son.....I am a tame little lamb compared to that gal who would post to me. She never, ever talked rough to "me", (but she said what I needed), and if some LBS took their feelings out on her for being a WAW....she would nearly skin them alive with her posts! I doubt the mods would let me get away with it.(lol) But, she was gold to me, and the other lady was too. I don't know if I would have made it if I had not had at least one other person who understood exactly what I was going through. I hope your W will find some means of help. She may never tell you. I didn't tell my H (however, he probably read my computer history).
Don't give up, okay?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
