Now that's a much better response. If we seem a little too direct sometimes, it's only because we want to see you succeed regardless of your decision.
So now that you've decided to maybe start walking towards your H, rather than away, we'll go with that.
When was the last time you talked to him? Have you been in contact with him?
that is the problem. last time i had any contact was when our friend went with me to get my stuff. my h kept trxting and calling my mom's but i just wouldn't respond because of the way he had acted. in honesty, i do want to talk this through and tried to before and now that some time is passing i feel stuck. i called for an appointment with a christian based counselor and its for next tuesday. i will ask what is the best way to initiate contact with my h. the more time passes in silence though the harder it is for me. thats why i thought maybe a note so that i or he doesn't have to feel uncomfotable in person or on the phone.
