Will you do me a favor? Will you change your signature? I really hate seeing you define what's going on right now by the fact that he joined a dating site. I cannot believe how well that you are doing!!!! You deserve to take that off of your signature. It just reminds you and everyone else of the hurt and you deserve to be moving towards the healing.
His mood is going to be like this for awhile. You should always be monitoring and that's good that you are, but you are allowed to be happy when a good thing happens. You need to allow that for yourself. If you do not, if you are constantly looking behind your back for the next blow, you are never going to relax enough to enjoy yourself. If you cannot relax, he won't relax, tension remains.
You need to be so proud of yourself and how far you've come. You really need to allow yourself to feel that. I am so praying for you. I hope that you have a fantastic night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
