I think that there are KEY differences, if you will. From a women's perspective, I believe that men can be complex. I have 5 brothers and a crazy H, they have their issues that definitely confuse me. Now, with that said, in a situation like this, I would rather be the woman than the man (again, in general). I say this because I think that someone would have an easier time predicting what the WAH would do given a set of circumstances than the WAW. I don't know, but that's my guess. Women tend more to live in their own little world. They see gaps and they tend to fill those gaps with their own assumptions. Meaning, I have had troubles with H for awhile, but instead of confronting those head-on, I just come up with these scenarios in my head that fill the gaps. Well, these assumptions, of course, take on a life of their own. They come attached with these crazy feelings and we become attached to those feelings. We kind of create our own reality a little bit more. I'm sure I'm not articulating this well. But I can see your point.
