Thanks again Young at heart. I don't think I am ready to give up just yet so I will stand by for now. He will eventually, like you said, hit rock bottom. I know there is nothing I can do to save him from that. Where he is staying right now, both of the guys there are heavy drinkers. This is only going to make things worse.

But maybe, just maybe if he decides to come back I can use the advice you have given me. But I think only when he sees what is really happening and that I am not the only one at fault here will we be able to change it. Again thanks for taking the time to read and respond to my forum.


Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007