Need advice on how to respond to a text.

I haven't heard anything on the divorce in six months.

Today, I get a text asking if I'm going to start paying the after school sitter $37.50 per week. STBXW has been paying her $75 a week since I moved out.

I am paying her $438 now every two weeks.

In December, in an email exchange about insurance, I reminded her I'd have to start paying half of the after-school sitter AFTER the divorce became final.

Should I respond -- "That's part of the final agreement but the divorce isn't final." ????

I don't want to start paying it until the divorce is final and she pays me the settlement amount because the settlement amount will wipe out a 401(k) loan which [censored] $129 out of my check every two weeks.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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