Trust Bond's opinion on this way more than mine Dixie, he has much more experience. But IMO I think that you handled fantastically.

Don't let your mind wonder about what he is doing. You need to detach from him right now. Plenty to read here about 'detaching'.

The texting bothers me too. But, for some, it is just an easy way to communicate. It may not mean anything at all. I wouldn't get too caught up in worrying about that right now.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce