W is calling tonight. Called while I was on the phone with the DB Coach. She was pissed this is how the conversation went...

“First things first. Are you hurt?" I said "no why" "are you in the hospital?" "no" "then tell me why your best friend just went by my job in his police uniform. My boss was asking why a cop came looking for me" I told her I had no idea but I would call and find out.

A few minutes later she called back and said "hey I just texted him and he wants a loan" she works at a finance company. "so I said great. Give him some money. If you can call tonight I would like to say something to you, if you have time" she said "ok I'll call when I get off"

Basically my buddy lives in the same town where she works in OK and have known about our situation since the beginning. Of all my friends and family he is the only one who has maintained hope and believes we will work out our differences he has also given me some very solid advice. I guess he just wanted to go by and see how she was doing, if I know him (and I have for almost 20yrs) he wanted to get a status check on W to see how things are but he won't mention that to her.

So when she calls tonight I plan to keep it simple any advice???


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