UPDATE: So, H was suppose to come mid-morning TODAY per his text yesterday to pick up the Dog. No show...
At 3:46P he texted me saying: " Would you mind keeping her for another day or two? Im so exhausted and cant get out of bed today.
Of course I got really pisst! But, I didnt respond mad like I would. Instead, I paused and said, "I would love too".
H replied: " Think I'm getting sick".
I responded: "That's a bummer, weather is pretty crazy latley. Hope you feel better."
H replied: "Thanks"
So, that's it...Don't know if I did good or not. But, I wanted to lash out at him and say something like....This is so typical of you. You never do what you say...blah blah blah. That's what I would have done in the past.
Of course, my mind is racing...he only has one day off. Is he w/someone? Is he out having big fun? What's he really doing? Did he just not want to see/deal with me? Ya know all that crazy stuff we start thinking!
Dang, I had prayed all day about the interaction and thought how I would handle myself and etc. I just feel so frustrated. Plus, this texting stuff just makes me so upset. How do you go from speaking to someone everyday, to just NOTHING! Now, I'm only good enough for a text???? I'm just your damn W who has put up w/your crap for years now. When you lost your mind!! What is he 12 or something???? You cant pick up the damn phone and talk to me like a grown up!??? UGH....Sigh.....
Sorry, I'm just venting now.....but, yall know how it feels!
So, Mr. Bond and Denver...Plan B???? Did I handle the text right ya think?
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010
