Originally Posted By: tjack45
Harrier,
My advice if you are going to work on it is that she cannot work with/ or around him.... This was the ultimate downfall of my relationship... Due to financial reasons, my W couldn't leave her job, OM didn't leave either... Yep, right back together after 6 months.. I did hear conflicting advice in this, but my advice to anybody trying to reconcile, their is no question that OM/OW is absolutely no part of their life going forward... Reconciling is very hard in the first place and most of the time if contact is kept, well the end is inevitable.


Tjack - thanks for posting that advice. This is something that I've wondered about if W and I ever get to the piecing stage. I think that this is very good advice.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce