It's not really my perspective that matters here. It is how he views you, but more importantly....
How you view you..
Originally Posted By: Scylla_Charibdis
Trust me I know my own percieved character flaws, and have worked hard to change many of them and if not eliminate them, tone them down into a gentler, more palatable version. I have already come a long way.
I generally trust anyone until I have reason not to...
No offense, but the people that tell me to trust them ?
I have no reason to doubt you have come a long way. I also know that people are resistant to change unless it is change that they initiate on their own. And those changes....deep changes, take time to embed themselves into our daily routine.
Seldom are they as easy as ...okay, I've changed ...now what ?
Originally Posted By: Scylla_Charibdis
No they don't define me, not by a long shot.
You can see where he has totally blocked out any perception of my good qualities. I'm painted blacker than black in his eyes.
I know this is difficult, but it really doesn't matter if he paints you pink, with a purple stripe right now....
If this is MLC...
This time needs to be about you, and what color you paint yourself....
