Suggest you get your own lawyer. Don't use the same one. Here in my province you must get a certificate of independant counsel before you can divorce. There is a reason for that. You put the lawyer in difficult position. His job is to represent YOUR best interests. Putting him in the middle represents a conflict. If you want a collaborative separation agreement, seek a mediator.
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