Thanks everybody.

Grace, my H filed although I haven't received papers yet.

He did email me back and say that we would file jointly. That is a relief as I know I will get more back by filing this way and taxes are due on my place.

Mach, I did think of each of us claiming one child. That would be fine with me. I don't think H will see it that way, but maybe. Just another thing to be ironed out in the D business.