How to Save Your Marriage During an Affair

[MrBond]

For me, I've seen alot of A end before the 6 month mark (in life and around other sites).

I think what's most important, especially for the LBS is what you do when the A is going on. You don't have to sit back like the ugly kid at the dance hoping to get noticed. Whether you feel like breaking up the A or not, that's up to you. Like establishing boundaries. That's fine to establish a boundary, but I haven't seen many people follow through on consequences once the boundaries have been crossed.

You can choose not to be a doormat, or whatever. Just because the WAS chooses to go out and have an A, doesn't make you a doormat.

Just my .02.