"Denver is right this was years ago before my situation developed. At that time, my marriage was awesome and I did not do it to let her control me. I did it because I knew it bothered her and I wanted to show her I'd put her feelings first. I think it's something you kinda do in marriage."
Oh, so you did what a good husband would do and acted in a way that was out of respect for your wife's feelings.... Good for you. Best of luck to you. Just remember, if/when you begin piecing, you need to be in charge of the efforts.
