Someone suggest H is having a MLC....I don't know?

[Queen_of_Swords]

It depends on your perspective I suppose.
Many of the things he mentions have their positive aspects.
I'll give you an example: Pigheadedness vs Persistant.

Pigheadedness - is being married to an opinion or action unthinkingly, unadaptable. Persistant is having thought out an opinon, action or goal and sticking with it even though it's difficult or challenging.

Yes I'm a strong woman. I am a fixer, problem solver ( don't listen as well as I could - always looking for the solution) I am uber responsible and do what needs doing ( take control). I am attentive to detail (critical), I am discerning and analytical ( judgemental).

Trust me I know my own percieved character flaws, and have worked hard to change many of them and if not eliminate them, tone them down into a gentler, more palatable version. I have already come a long way.

No they don't define me, not by a long shot.

You can see where he has totally blocked out any perception of my good qualities. I'm painted blacker than black in his eyes.