This has been a long process to come to this. For me to live and learn the man I want to be.
It is a process, and it does take TIME.
There are many things going on inside of us during that TIME.
Learning to live the life that WE want and not what we think that someone else wants.
When we reach the point that we know the life we want to lead for ourselves independent of what anyone else may want the feeling of "wanting" to get started with that life starts pulling you along.
It is that desire that propels you to move forward with or without your spouse.
Grit, You have handled all this with nobility and wisdom. I am sad for any M that has to come to an end but happy that you have discovered the Life that you want to lead and that you have chosen to start living it.
Happy Little Friday my friend.
Cheers
~C
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
