Harrier, My advice if you are going to work on it is that she cannot work with/ or around him.... This was the ultimate downfall of my relationship... Due to financial reasons, my W couldn't leave her job, OM didn't leave either... Yep, right back together after 6 months.. I did hear conflicting advice in this, but my advice to anybody trying to reconcile, their is no question that OM/OW is absolutely no part of their life going forward... Reconciling is very hard in the first place and most of the time if contact is kept, well the end is inevitable.
