Update and question:

Flew in from FL to IL this morning. Texted W if she wanted to have lunch. She said "sure". I went to get food and we ate at her work. I greeted her with a hug and kiss.

When I was leaving we kissed but instead of a quick peck on the lips she seemed more relaxed. Her lips felt so soft for the first time. Of course I had no idea that she would be relaxed so I was quicker. Then we had a 10 second hug (we both squeezed) then a final kiss before I left.

My fear is she is just doing things to please me (am I mindreading here?).

I have to say it was very nice. Tonight is the first night were sleeping in the same bed in 6 nights.

Just don't want to make a wrong move...


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012