My current living arrangements do not allow for me to have the kids over night. I think my best plan of action right now is to stay focused on the job sitch until I land one and go with the every other weekend arrangement and 1 night a week at the house with the Ds while the W removes herself until they are in bed. I will only engage in conversation with her when she initiates. When the job sitch is settled, I will address the living arrangements again and then start DBing my *ss off.
I started today by ignoring my wife calling me at both the house and on my cell numerous times and let her leave me a VM. It was all regarding meeting w/ an insurance adjuster about her accident yesterday. I dealt w/ the adjuster and am choosing to just relay the necessary info to her via email.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11