My wife's EA was kinda unique though. Like I said no massive texting (1-2/day), no long phone calls or phone calls outside of work hours, no secret rendezvous, they only worked together 1/day week for a few hours and she didn't withdraw from me at all during the EA. But there was no question it was an EA though.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.