H texted again this morning. he does snow removal and wanted to know how much snow we got last night. He has moved to another community right now. I did text back and tell him. One thing he did say to me just before he left was that I have always been there for him. I am feeling that maybe he is assuming that I still will.

So is my 180 doing things like not answering his texts that don't involve the kids? Should I have not responded to his text this morning? Just wondering if that is just being mean or if that is what I should be doing?

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007