I am in a situation alot like yours but my spouse has came out of her depression and completly let loose. The best advice I can give you is try to think back to what it was that brought you together, the not worrying about making eachother happy. Life happens and things get ignored, people get ignored. Every woman has a problem with not being able to make herself feel that way about us men. We have to be the lion, the happy positive being they can find comfort and protection from. Financial problems are huge, and if you think about it financial problems occur with men because of the lack of confidence because what is going on at home. Be the man and whatever you do don't bring up relationship talk, it may seem like the right thing to do, but I assure you, you cannot convince them to feel for you again. Stay positive andI know it hurts, believe me I am hurting bad right now. I hope this helps a little
