she will text me when i go dark for a week and ask about custody isues and what she needs to tell them to put into the papers but has yet to file. she is playing a dangerous game with me cause i am getting to where i could care less if she lives or dies. just recently cut off all her financial funding and being she is an unemployed college student interested to see how she responds to that. my w dosnt want a divorce she is playing a game trying to get me to be however she wants me to be but this game has gone on long enough and im fixing to end her little game. its taken me 3 months after the separation to finally build up the strength to stand up to her something she has never seen. guys let me tell u something i have learned until u get the power back in ur marriage and cut a selfish wife off u have no chance in hell and she will use u to the end im telling u cause im living proof. you have to stand up to women like this she wants a divorce fine show her ass the door im telling u it will work out much better than begging crying and pleading believe me there are many women out there much better than what u have and i have just learned that.