DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[ScaredinCanada]

My wife says she does not like sex because it makes her feel like a human dildo.

Wow. I guess she isn't getting the emotional connection she needs. Like I said, my W seems to complain about everything now - nothing was ever good. When it comes to sex though I swear it's never really been her thing, but especially since we've had kids. She made statements (not recently but around the time our 3rd D was born) like "I don't care if I ever have sex again" and "If we aren't trying to have a baby I don't see any point in having sex". The weird part is that when we would engage in sex I know she really enjoyed it. I think the part that always bothered her was normally after I would want to just goto sleep, I wouldn't take the time to try and cuddle or continue sensual touching after we finished. I dunno, just my take.

That's why her comments the other day about her really enjoying it, and if she really loved me then she'd want to ML with me more frequently seemed a little bit silly to me. Again, the feeling that she's trying to put a negative spin on things.

At this point we haven't ML in at least 3 months, but from her perspecitive we haven't ML in years...BAH!

Regardless I cotinue down this yellow brick road in hopes that she finds her heart again...and I don't lose my heart, my brain and my courage!