wow I was so surprized to read this.. This is such a a positive move for your xh and whatever is his motivation to improve himself everyone will benefit especially the kids I agree with the others I would be supportive and show forgiveness and whatever would help his transfomation without getting hooked into his recovery process support validate froma distance detach and keep going with your life and plans more will be revealed wow peace
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