The fact that she asked if you went out on a date is very telling. She's still curious. When you go out, even if it's by yourself, dress great and smell great. Just mention you're going out and then leave.
When you come back, look very happy. If there was something funny that happened, casually mention it to her but don't engage too much.
Go out and do your own thing and be happy about it.
I don't know if I had ever sent you this link before, but read through the thread. It may give you some good ideas.
I agree it at least let's me know that she's curious about what I'm doing. In her mind though I believe she's already moved on, she's attempting to plan her life without me.
Also, the trip she is taking with her mother to a Dude Ranch at the end of February has been all firmed up. Anyone have any ideas how I can deal with the stress of her being away for a week while I'm home with the kids? (Now don't say to have a fun week with the kids - because I will be doing that). As well, I already scared about how my emotions are going to take over me when she gets back. I know I'm going to hoping she missed me, and at the same time I'm going to terrified that she was fooling around with some cowboy while she was away?!?!?!?!
I have some time to prepare, but these are my current fears.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
