DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[Sad_but_happy]

I agree Bond... But if the tables were turned, I can see myself that I might go back to OW if I THOUGHT that my W started seeing someone else. I think they need to keep the guilt.

I'm not saying it's right bit guilt is a tool, IMHO.

It IS a game we are playing. Looking good and smelling good IS for us but let's not kid ourselves. We ARE doing it to get a reaction from our S.