"Its just confusing when my new C tells me one thing and DBing says another."

DBing is counter intuitive. And besides, traditional MC isn't very good at saving marriages according to studies.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER