People who have been in an affair will believe that their spouse will be doing the same because that's how they were. And they believe that everyone is like them. They don't realize that when you learn as much as we have, we don't necessarily NEED someone to make us happy.
If she does say something like "Please let me know if you're seeing someone else. If you are I want to be able to do the same thing." Then just respond, "will do". And walk off happy.
Your answer to her doesn't matter. She will do what she wants to do and will come up with whatever excuses she wants to justify it. They think that since they were dishonest and cheated, then their spouse is the same way. With that knowledge, turn it into an advantage. They're going to think what they want anyway.
It's not manipulative. You're just being honest.
They don't need a "reason" to go to the OP. They already go before there even was a reason. And let's face it, there is NO REASON to ever get into an affair. EVER. That's just WAS gibberish.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
