DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[Sad_but_happy]

All, I agree being mysterious is good but a word of caution...

I went to the movies alone a few months ago. All dressed up and smelling good. When I got home my W said the following:

"Please let me know if you're seeing someone else. If you are I want to be able to do the same thing."

Of course I said I'm not. If your W is still in a position of feeling guilty of an A then this action COULD take that guilt away on push them to OP.

Especially if they are not invested in the M and looking for an excuse to leave.

Tust a thought.