2 years later it's still not getting easier

[whitneypinch]

I too had a GREAT s*x life with my X. She was my absolute perfect partner. In fact the night before she dropped the bomb we had s*x.
BUT my X had lot's of s*x before me. She spent a couple of years with the "Hollywood" crowd in LA before me.

Yes, fooling around would be a nice option but I have always preferred to be in a committed relationship. It always made the s*x better.

Ya, my X is really good about doing the right stuff when it comes to being divorced and the effect it has on children etc. She is a good mother.

You know I hate to say it but your D is right. In fact I think about that all the time, in that if our spouses really did love us they would be with us. Most of the DB stuff is to just get us through it.

I am thinking about ending this thread and starting a new one called "3 years later and it's time to move on" in the Surviving the Big D section.
I think it's "time".