Sorry guys. Didn't mean to stir up a hornet's nest. It is just that the OM is still a touchy subject with me. In 15 years, I never cheated on her other than the occasional visit to the gentleman's club for bachelor parties. But I always told her about those visits and when I was going. I have a subscription to Playboy, but we actually read it together. She honestly likes the articles and sometimes we look at the women together and discuss them. I have always read it in front of her and I did it with her permission. I have kept nothing from her, so the OM is just a real problem for me right now that I need to work through. Take care!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...