Deju vu, but new to the online forum...round 2

[Denver_2010]

MJ - Should have had you join the poker game I was in last weekend! It was definitely a nice diversion.

I understand what you are saying about going dark with the kid situation. It was much easier for me bc W and I have no children together and my SS has his own cell phone that I could contact him on.

So the children are living with W full time? Why not work out a schedule where they stay with you on certain days of the week and with W on the others? You have the responsibilities when they are with you and your W has them when they are with her? If your W follows through with D that is the way that it is going to be. Why not now with separation? Your W needs to get a dose of the reality of what she is doing! Under this arrangement, she'd have to figure it out when she has the kids... again, this is what she's going to need to do if D.

And also under this arrangement, you can go dark on her for a while.