Mj, Both offers sound promising. For the record, I have spent the past 10 years in outside medical sales. It is a very tough gig and one of the things that broke up my M. I have a home office and I could never completely detach from work at night. This angered my W and I never really did a very good job of controlling it. She begged me to quit, but I wouldn't because the pay was good. With all the changes coming to healthcare in this country, the money isn't what it used to be. I am contemplating getting out. Just some food for thought.
None the less, it all sounds good and I really hope you can land one of your choices. Make this your priority for now. Having a new job will give you some purpose and take your mind off of things. Heck, it may give you a new perspective on your sitch. So, good luck. This will be your first successful step to getting yourself back! We are pulling for you.
Focus on your job sitch, your kids and your C and just let the W be for now. She still sounds very angry and is still looking for a fight. Remember, don't give it to her no matter what. Read my sitch. For two weeks now, I have refused to give my W the fight she was looking for and now we are talking again. Yes, it could be over the furniture and nothing more, but we are talking again. This was after almost 2 1/2 months of complete darkness on both our parts. No, I have not forgotten that just last Tuesday, she told me again that "it is over, I will not be returning to our marriage." But as long as we are talking like we still care, the possibilities are endless. I am not looking forward to this weekend, but I will live and the sun will come up on Monday regardless.
Keep us posted. A win for a member is a win for all of us.
B.I.T.S.
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
