mj I think Mr Bond and Jack3beans have given good advice. I read some of you guys post and I say to myself "man how lucky that at least you have your wife to look at and have the opportunity to really put these tools to the test" Look at it that way. You have the opportunity to really make changes that she can see but you have to control you first. I should probably take this advice myself lol. In my circumstance I am separated by 1500 miles so my changes really go unnoticed. I don’t say that to minimize but to inspire that you have an opportunity to really affect the outcome here. As a newly minted member of BITS I am here for you! I will go back and read the entire thread from start to finish but I am hardly qualified to give advice. I am a wreck most of the time. Mr Bond and Jack I would love for you guys to visit my thread also and give me some thoughts. I am like MJ need all the help I can get!! I will be posting an email my W sent right before she left, as soon as it gets approved please check it out MJ and share your thoughts.
