"What is it that you want? For the marriage? For yourself?"
This seems like an odd question. Mainly because of the way you worded it.
If I answer it based on what the question is.. I would say..
I want my marriage to work. I want her to understand that my actions are not intended to hurt her. I feel like we have both bent over backwards at times.. to make that clear. But it has fallen on deaf ears. We both have sacrificed alot. But we both find ourselves "lacking" each other. To a point I think we are just looking for something to "break" the cycle.. but it has not happened yet.
If I looked at your question with "Emotion" involved.. I would say..
Did you not read my posts? Did you not do your homework? Can you not "see" the work I have done? At the bare minimum she thought things were good enough to get back together. Why am I just now finding out that she still does not give a crap about me? Why are you asking me what I want?
"Once you are sure in your mind and heart, then you have resolve and hope and patience to endure and find the solutions, or not."
I know what I want. I have the resolve and hope.. and patience.
Can you help me find the solution?
Or.. Not?
If you have questions.. ask them.
You lead.. I will follow.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
