A slow turn

[FellOnBlackDays]

Bolt,
I don't know much about her texting habits, because we don't see much of each other. For the record, she has never texted him in front of me or answered a text from him in front of me. Much like you, I think she might still have too much respect for me to do such a thing. You and I both know we shouldn't worry about the EA. We can't stop it or control it. But, no matter what, at the end of the day it is just wrong. If the shoe were on the other foot, my W would be flipping out and crying from the top of her lungs. Funny how when you are the one committing the crime, a person tends to "downplay" the severity of it all. Every spouse on here is doing the same thing. "Oh, he or she is just a friend." "Oh, he or she is just a good listener." "Oh, he or she is helping me with my feelings." Funny, sweetheart, you didn't need your texting buddy three years ago when we were happier than ever?? Funny, you didn't need a texting buddy when we were in Hawaii together two summers ago??? I don't give flying sh*t how they justify it, IT IS WRONG!

But, at the end of the day, it is out of my control. I have vented and I am done for today. Back to DB'ing. Keep us posted, BOLT!

B.I.T.S.

FOBD