I failled horribly...

[Denver_2010]

I have been DB'ing my butt off and I was beginning to think it was working. But, today, I got a huge dose of reality slapped right in my face. Out of the blue, she called. When I saw her on the caller ID, I was thrilled. I paused, composed myself and answered. She made two minutes of small talk and immediately turned to asking questions about the logistics of getting her moved this weekend. I think I am being set up. I thought her sudden interest in me was because of the time apart and my GALing and 180. I think I am starting to figure out why she is really calling. She wants her furniture and her remaining stuff. This is the part where I am supposed to say something cool or funny, but I am back in the toilet again. Now I know why she suddenly took an interest in calling me over the past two weeks. She needs access to the house.

FOBD - Alright, so maybe that was the initial motivation for her to take an interest in calling you. But you described the face to face visits as being something like 2 hours long right? Listen man, even if she was just softening you to get her furniture, she didn't have to spend that much time with you. She didn't need to let you brush the tear from her face (if I recall that correctly). You may be right about her initial motivation... neither of us know bc we can't mind read, but these still sound like progress. You didn't think it was going to be that easy did you man!?

Also, there is a long distance EA right? I didn't recall reading that in your actual thread, but think that I saw something over on Bolts thread about some dbag that your W is TMing and that you found him on FB. Is that right? I hate to be blunt about this, but as long as that is going on, you have an uphill battle. A battle that CAN be won, but it just isn't going to be as easy as you'd like it to be.

Remember your own words man... the only easy day is yesterday! Keep working... You're doing great!

BITS!!!!!
Denver