I really don't know, zengypsy . Maybe they feel like less of a man if they go to MC. I know my H is ALWAYS concerned about what other people think. Or maybe it is because they know they are going to have to share feelings and be honest. Wish i knew how to change that on.
I just find it interesting that men seem to have an opinion about it and have never tried it. There is no way in heck my STBX would go either. So, I went alone.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
