I am oh so angry right now. My H spent a bit of time with kids after school today. When they get home they inform me that H has told them his plans. He is going to move into the basement suite of where he is living right now. There are people in there at the moment so it won't be right away, but when he does then S11 and D7 are going to live with him for 2 weeks and then they will live with mom for 2 weeks.

What the heck is he thinking talking to the kids about adult stuff and decisions like that without even running it by me first? The kids are so confused right now. He hasn't even been gone a week and this is what he is doing. I wanted to pick up the phone and rip a strip off of him. I didn't and I am trying to not call or text, but holy crap I AM PISSED OFF.

I did tell the kids that it wasn't right for dad to talk to them about stuff like that without dad and I making a decision first.

I was trying to write on someone else's forum but all I could see was red. Have to calm down before I can write something for someone else.

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007