UPDATE.

WAW came home today and asked me to leave.

She was very nice about it, even told me she loved me for the first time in months. Assured me that the problem was her and that she was getting help, and is very open to reconciliation.

But she needs her space. Going to rent out living room to subletter.. a common NYC arrangement, and set me up in our old city so I can be with friends. She is thinking 3-6 months initially, although we have discussed a year. She wants me out very soon

I was very calm in handling it. Our conversation with each other was much better after it was done, but it is what it is.

Any advice appreciated... ML