Thanks for your reply and offer. Walking this path alone is so hard and your offer to walk it with me welcome.
I have already reduced contact with or won't talk about my situation with certain unsupportive people that keep telling me I " have to accept the H is finished, so forget him and find happiness with someone else."
The length of our separation has me wondering often if they're right.


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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.