My last post till later tonight... Cocktail hour since the sales meeting is over and I go home tomorrow... Big bash!!! Gonna have a good time!!!



A question for the women DB'ers and Sandi.

I read in "His Needs, Her Needs" that women that detach from an A or OM and become closer to their H rarely ever want to cheat again or go back to OM. It says that as long as they are getting their needs met that they can be completely satisfied and content.

WHILE MEN ON THE OTHER HAND...

Will or in many cases do/can return to the OW or another A even if they are getting their needs met because they MISS that conquest.


Can any of you women confirm or deny this from your perspective?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012